Are you afflicted by CRAP? Check urgently!

Act 1:  Scene 1:  A home in South Africa

Child:     Dad, what am I?

You:      You are a Black my child. 

Child:     But Dad, black is the colour of the ink on this page. I am not black?! 

You:      You must understand. This is the way it is. This is South Africa.

Child:     And my best friend, Patricia whose parents come from Cape Town?

You:      She is Coloured, my child.

Child:     But Dad, coloured is like those coloured crayons Mum got me from CNA. Patricia is brown, not  coloured.

You:      Look here, don't start being argumentative, she is Coloured!

Child:     And my other friend, Helen, who speaks Afrikaans all the time?

You:      She is White. Can't you see that she is white.? What is wrong with you, all these silly questions?

Child:     Dad, white is the colour of this paper. Helen is not white. She is very light brown, and I really like her blue eyes. 

You:      Listen child, if you must be such a clever boots, Black, White and Coloured are not really real. They are social constructs that we have from history. You need to learn this.

Child:    Aah, I see. I am "social construct black Angie". My friend is "social construct coloured Patricia" and ......

You:    Listen here child, don't try and be smart with me. I am your father. If you must know, this is all because of what the Whites did, long ago in America and also here in South Africa. Have you not been taught about apartheid ... or were you busy arguing with your teacher instead of listening? 

Child:     But Dad, are the Whites still in charge?   Are we not in charge now? Our teacher said that Nelson Mandela and the ANC defeated apartheid and EVERYONE was freed in 1994?

You:      No... I mean Yes ... we are now in charge  ... and we are now a rainbow nation and ... er ... proudly South African..

Child:     But dad, there is no black in the colours of the rainbow. 

You:      Yes, yes, yes ... but look here, that is the way it is.

Child:     Our teacher also taught us that a person born in Europe is a European. Helen and I were both born in the same hospital. Are we not Africans?

You:      Yes ... I mean No ... she is White .. you are Black .... !!! 

Child:     ....  and Patricia is Coloured. But her brother had to put that he was Black when he was applying for a job Why?

You:      er ... er ... Yes well ... it is so under Affirmative Action ....

Child:      So he is "affirmative action Black Jacob". What about if he does not get the job?.  Does he stay as a Coloured?

You:      No ... no ... No ... are you trying to be smart with me child? 

Child:     And we learnt that the KhoiSan were the original inhabitants of this land ... that their land was taken from them ... and has not been given back ....  and that they are not the same as us ... they are ...

You:       Look child, the KhoiSan are Africans ... they are like us ... they are born here ... in Africa .... 

Child:     But they are the same colour as Patricia, who was also born here in Groot Schuur, where Dr Barnard did the first heart transplant on .... 

You:      Huh ... they are  Khoi and San. Don't worry about them child.

Child:     Patricia says the Coloured people are from the KhoisSan. Many of them look like the KhoiSan.

You:      Shut up ...

Child:     Patricia says that her uncle from Zimbabwe says that when a person would speak like you in their pub, they would all start singing their version of "Who Is Fooling Who" by our Ray Phiri and Stimela.

You:      Don’t start reminding me of these Zimbabweans ... they have spoilt their own country and are full up doing crime in ours ... ... 

Child:    But Dad, I thought you said we are all Africans?  Were you also burning the Zimbabweans and Mozambicans in the xenophobic violence?

You:      No, I did not ... I did not ....
Child:    But you were not angry about this.  You were very angry about people who were happy. You were shouting "To hell with these gay people ... to hell with them ...
You:      Look here child .... I do not want to hear about gay people ...  and lesbians .... 

Child:     Dad, do you know that you are full of crap?  * 

[*Editors note -- the father does suffer from CRAP = Chronically Racist And Prejudiced.]  

You are. Really!  But you are in good company. 50 million South Africans accept, connive or collude at this nonsense. We have colour coded the nation.  We define ourselves as colours; not as human beings. The child is right. We are all full of crap.  What proves it beyond all doubt is that we even have  "BEE accreditation"  in terms of which entities are paid to certify the degree of blackness we have achieved. 

Now if we cannot get over the past, and want to wallow in it,  let us not visit its sins on our children.  Let us not force fatuous lies on these little ones.  Life is difficult enough without the child having to contend with "convenient untruths" just because we want to satisfy our hang-ups. Let us at least start dealing in truth, for a change. 

The first one is that any competent psychologist, criminologist or social scientist will confirm to you that a child easily sees what is true and what is false.  The child knows when you are lying.  

Secondly, self image is critical to the proper development of a child.  Confusion in this respect often predisposes the child to deviance, even criminal conduct in later life.  It is critically important that a child accepts who and what he/she is and is nurtured to be proud of this.

It may be that the planet's greatest entertainer, Michael Jackson, was conflicted in this way. "The answer lies within Michael himself. No matter how much another person loves you, if you do not love yourself, it won't make a difference. I believe that Michael Jackson did not love himself".

So let us stop playing very dangerous games with our children.  The fact that the World is so messed up may well have much to do with generations of people having grown up fatally conflicted in the psyches. 

Stop forcing lies on our children.  Start by giving your child a small, simply drafted, booklet titled "The Universal Declaration of Human Rights".  It has no colour coding of human beings.

It was signed off at the United Nations as long ago as 1947, for God's sake.  

It is long overdue that we try to start subscribing to its simple tenets.   

If we do this our children will work things out for themselves, in accordance with truth, not lies.  They wiil reject convenient lies and strike out for a better World ... as is happening in the Arab Spring. 

PS: -  The child, who has been reading George Orwell, has since drawn the farm post on the right.
This an EXACT reverse image of the racist apartheid model. It is tragic that the heroic struggle that so many gave their lives in has culminated in this grotesque, obscene, vomitus reality ,,, and a whole nation seems blind to it.

Follow link below ---- http://coginito.blogspot.com/2012/07/social-cohesion-summit-doomed-denialism.html

Social Cohesion in South Africa --- doomed in denialism

The so called "Social Cohesion Summit"* was good. Such a conference was long overdue. It was the first attempt at nation building. However it was doomed because denialism about truth is embedded at all levels of this sick society.

There is no disagreement that South Africa is a very sick nation. Zwelenzima Vavi, of COSATU, has just opined that we have no less than 20 demonstrations a day now, about failed delivery of services. We all know about the crime statistics and that over two (2) million households are now headed by  a child … just for starters. It is now nearly two years since Vavi correctly observed that a situation has been reached where the new elite are “spitting in the faces of the poor”.  Now we have violent riots almost daily and the nation has experienced the tragedy of Marikana. 

What we simply do not agree on is the reason(s). The ANC support camp is always vociferous in blaming everyone and everything else “Whites, colonialism, imperialism …” except our ANC government. Black political commentators, and the media, are more objective, in correctly ascribing responsibility to government. However this is always done “gingerly” and with good dollops of political correctness. White commentators, like Prof Pierre de Vos,  are mostly even more tactful.

As a people we are just not identifying, admitting and addressing the fundamental drivers of why we are a very sick society.  On Redi Tlhabi’s 702 talk show, on the morning of 4 July 2012, psychologist and struggle stalwart, Dr Saths Cooper, very eloquently said as much labeling, South Africa as a very “abnormal” society.  Society we are; nation we are not.  Why is this so?  Why are we not a nation?

Like everything else, whether it be a house, a dam, a bridge, a road or a society, it must start with the “fundamentals”. These are always critical.  So let us confront the main fundamental with brutal candour ... for the first time I dare say.

On day one of our new democracy, in 1994, the dominant majority decided to define its members, not as human beings, but as a colour; the colour “black”.  It did this, despite the fact that this “label" came with really terrible credentials. It is no more, no less a racist social construct conceived in the cause of oppression. It was conceived and nurtured in the old slave owning, plantation owner dominated Deep South USA, to lump everyone, not of pure Caucasian genes (Negroid, Hispanic, mulatto, quadroons, octoroons .. etc),  into one grouping. The  infamous JimCrowe “one drop” rule was a natural by-product.

Of course the label “black” had great utility during the Civil Rights era. Since all non-whites were rejected by the dominant White group, unity of purpose to rebut racism was unavoidable. However such utility  was simply not indicated once liberation was won in 1994.  It has little relevance in the USA to-day, where a whole people have voted in a colour blind way to install a man, Barrack Obama, to the most powerful position in the World, purely on merit!

That people should be seen and treated as humans, and NOT as colours, was long overdue in South Africa. It was also at the heart of the struggle against apartheid, because treating human beings as colours was at the heart of the that culture. However, instead of dumping the apartheid culture, and this racist social construct, we adopted it, embraced it and embedded it in our transformational model.

So we posted this as central to Affirmative Action, and we gave our socio-economic empowerment model the label “black”, i.e. Black Economic Empowerment. In the result we can now post this plaque in the very heart of South Africa-  “On this farm, as regards jobs and contracts, a Black MUST be favoured; a White MUST be discriminated against; a Coloured/Indian/Chinese MUST be discriminated against unless defined/accepted as Black”.

Now for the apartheid model, just reverse the colour coding!  Our transformational model is an EXACT mirror image of the apartheid model. That is the grim reality. You cannot deny it. You cannot wish it away.  We have the same absurd, immoral racist approach as that of one of the most evil political systems in history. We all know it. But NO ONE is saying it. No one will go there.  We are a truly cowed nation.

In this model the black majority has become “us”. The White minority has become “them”. The rest have become “the other”. After 18 years we do not have a nation.  We have groupings of people whose psyche is pre-occupied with difference, and the notion “Black good, White bad, Coloured/Asian not too bad/good”.  It is like a growing cancer, eating away at the very fabric of society.

Instead of making “subsisting disadvantage” the criterion, in a drive towards social justice, NOT so called "social cohesion", we made the colour “black” the criterion, in a drive towards “transformation”.  Instead of saying that “a person who is still disadvantaged on account of apartheid will be affirmed/empowered"  we say that advantage MUST accrue to even a multibillionaire, if he/she is black, and disadvantage MUST accrue to a White, even if he/she is a pauper, had nothing to do with apartheid, and might even have opposed it. The same disadvantage MUST accrue to a Coloured or Asian person if he/she rejects the label “black”. This is mind boggling vomitus stuff!  We know this. But we are silent.

Black Economic Empowerment (BEE) was gratefully accepted, by a new Black connected elite, as a wonderfully packaged gift from the same sector that propped up apartheid. The colour “black” became a commodity/currency to be traded in for fabulous personal gain. BEE, in effect, stands for "black economic enrichment"!  It has nothing to do with "empowerment". 
We have a plethora of entities that have labeled themselves as “black”, e.g, Black Management Forum, Black Lawyers Association … etc. We have companies that specialize in certifying the level of your “blackness” under BEE accreditation. This is ludicrous in the extreme. George Orwell must be wincing in his grave. We know this. But we say nothing.

Obviously evil begets evil. So it is not at all surprising that it has not worked … not at all. That is why we are still a very sick society, 18 years after liberation was supposedly won, at terrible cost and human sacrifice. Black fat cats voraciously exploited BEE and joined their big business sponsors ... leaving millions still stuck in apartheid poverty. The gap between rich and poor widened. SA achieved the shameful distinction of becoming the most unequal society in the world.

Given the fatally flawed "transformational" model, its objective too was fatally flawed. That is why we have no mention of social justice in the national discourse. If social injustice was the evil of apartheid, social justice is the reversal. A government that is obsessed with race/colour/ethnicity is divested from even starting to understand that the real objective is social justice. We don’t know that this is the objective. We don’t know it because we are stuck in an apartheid mentality. We are stuck there because we choose to deny the obvious. That is why we are dabbling in curious concepts like "social cohesion" and economic freedom".  A thoroughly cowed populace refuses to see what is staring it in the face.

It was Joe Slovo who stated that “the effectiveness of freedom vanishes when ‘freedom’ becomes a special privilege” , i.e., BEE.  But you cannot understand that people are not free if they are defined as a colour. You cannot understand that social justice is “colour blind”. When you define human beings as colour you are doing it for a perverse vindictive motive, not justice. When you attach rights and privileges to that colour you are being racist. We all know this. For God’s sake, we should, as victims of apartheid! But we are silent.

We are in a state of denial, massive wholesale denial. That is why social justice is not within our understanding. It is not an objective. It is not in our discourse. We divested ourselves of this level of understanding on day one.

There are consequences for this lack of understanding of social justice. We can name a few.  

• It is why we are “comfortable” with our President taking as many wives as he likes, even though this is certain proof that women are still unequal. 
• It is why we all gleefully celebrated the 2010 World Cup, even though the country could not afford it and it meant squandering scarce resources needed for our poor and homeless. 
• It is why not one person will even suggest that the deaths of some 300,000 victims of HIV/AIDs, on account of the willful, arrogant, purposeful denial of drugs, was a crime against humanity. To suggest this of such an important member of the “Black” majority is taboo.  
• It is why so many are happy at the singing of the song “Dubula ibhunu” that calls for man to kill man. 
• It is why we acquiesce in the fact that a woman or child is raped every 20 seconds. It is why we connive and collude at the miles and miles of  shacks and shanty towns in which human beings live like rats. 
• It is why the rights of the Khoi San, as the original inhabitants of the region, are not even mooted.  
• It is why the deaths of 62 people on account of xenophobic violence has no official acknowledgement. 
• It is why the police have become militarized .. and as result have just shot over 100 protesters out of hand, with 44 dead, in the tragedy of Marikana.
• It is why the ruling party locked horns over “economic freedom” instead of social justice. 
• It is why the wise counsel of Dr Mamphela Ramphele that we need to “walk together” has been ignored with seeming contempt. 
• It is why we have had a conference, named “a social cohesion summit”, about the future of SA and no mention was made of social justice in the pitch or discourse. 
• The President is quoted as saying that “it is time to build an inclusive society”. The statement is irreconcilable with a society that is defined in terms of colours. No one is saying it!

We need to understand that Lady justice is blindfolded for very good reason. She was not always so. Mankind took centuries to realize that she needed a blindfold. What we have done in South Africa is to take the blindfold off. We ask her to see difference. We ask her to make her sacred call on the basis of colour.

It is not justice, It is madness. We need to stop denying this!  The so called “Social Cohesion Summit” was  fatally flawed. 
We need to start thinking about President Kenneth Kaunda’s concept of “humanism” liberally spiced with our very own ubuntu. 

And here is the simple truth --- IF THE ABOVE DOES NOT CHANGE, SOUTH AFRICA WILL CONTINUE TO FAIL ... TO THE POINT OF COMPLETE DISASTER!

When in doubt, just tell the truth. Mark Twain.

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* Paul Mashitile, appeared on E-TV, as spokesman for the Social Cohesion Conference, and stated that it was a solemn objective of the Conference to "bring the races together, and ensure that people stop seeing themselves as whites, blacks, coloureds ... etc... "
It is quite difficult to imagine a more ludicrous objective in the light of the reality that government has defined the people as colours.

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